Thanks Guys, I really appreciate the input, really I do. You can't imagine how stressful this had been for me.
Because you have been so helpful I will give you a few details. This has been going on for 4 years. We retained an attorney who is learning with us as we proceed and has taken the case because he finds it challenging. The properties here keep changing hands and with each new neighbor comes the period of revelation. "Gee, why didn't my broker or attorney tell me about this problem?" Like, HELLO, it's about commissions and fees.
The surveyor of record was part of the original development team, lived here for years and knows the road was never built to code, since he built it, I don't think he'd give me much help. I figured the acreage and I'm afraid the opposition gets the brass ring by about 2.75 of an acrea.

BUMMER!
Oh well, onward and upward. The acreage is only part of the complaint, just have to be possitive.
Be well, be there and may the force be with you.
Mary Ellen